Romans 12:18 says, “as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” As far as it depends on you. Every year millions of kids become part of a family by adoption, foster parenting, or marriage and they get lots of new family members. You can’t make those kids love you but there are things you can do to help you live at peace. Engage in the child’s interests; join them in the books, sports, activities, and music they like. Actively pursue connection, and if you get discouraged don’t give up. Take special trips, or take part in service activities. Love is your goal and time is your friend.